Monday, October 31, 2016

Three Months In

We've been here 3 months. I am starting to feel the 3 month mark--realizing that we aren't going back to see our friends in Wheaton, that there won't be a time where I feel like I can zip over to Target or Aldi to get something that I need, that most of my activities with the kids will consist of going on walks in our neighborhood, and visiting the school pool and playground.   You could say the honeymoon stage is wearing off.  That's not to say that I don't think that it's good to be here.  I do still think that this is good, and I am reminded on a regular basis of the many blessings God has given us in the transition to live here.  Here is a summary of things we've learned over these past 3 months.



Things that I've learned:

  • Our kids are the stars.  Really.  They have blue eyes, and one of them has bright blond hair.  We are really just an accessory to our kids--both with Jeff's students, and with the Indonesian's we see in daily life.
  • I have regained my sense of direction, and know where I am when I am driving around our area.
  • I know where and how to go shopping for food.  In the beginning I felt like I had to go shopping everyday just to figure out what to buy and where to buy it.  Now, I have my weekly list, and we're getting into a pattern of when to shop.
  • How to go shopping with two kids.
  • How to express simple instructions to my helper in Indonesian.
  • How to bake in my oven without burning everything.
  • When to take a shower in the day so that I don't feel constantly sweaty.

Lydia loves to organize.  She lined up her Halloween candy like this on the table.

Things that Lydia has learned:
  • She recognizes when we are turning in to our neighborhood.  
  • She has somehow gained a fear of bugs, even tiny ants. One night, she pointed up at something on the ceiling and said, "ant." Well, actually it was a huge cockroach near her air conditioner! Later as we were reading bed time stories she pointed to something and said, "This one." It was another huge cockroach running around in her bookshelf.  Of course I screamed and jumped, and hopefully didn't teach her a fear of bugs...
  • So much independence...climbing in and out of her own chair, washing her hands by herself, wanting to get in to her carseat.  Basically, the fight is "I do it" vs. Mommy needing to do it for her.
  • To say, Terima Kasih (thank you) although it sounds more like kamikaze
  • To eat mango.  She didn't like it when we first arrives, but asks for it, now!

Things Elias has learned:
  • How to laugh at Lydia
  • How to roll on his belly and scoot forward
  • How to stay awake for longer than 2 hours at a time
  • How to sleep anywhere (hopefully he won't loose this skill!) 
Visiting Jeff's office at the ITC

Things Jeff has learned:
  • How to greet our neighborhood guards appropriately--good morning, good afternoon, good evening, goodnight
  • How to ride his bike to/from school in 10 minutes
  • How to drive Indonesia style (I think he enjoys getting to zoom around whoever is in his way.  Let's just say it came pretty naturally to him).
  • How to drink sub-par beer when necessary
  • How to be flexible in a cross-cultural working environment that is both rigid and constantly changing.
  • Which Indonesian dishes are good almost anywhere you go, and won't give any digestive issues
  • How to have patience at a pace of life that is unpredictable and at times contradictory
  • How to eat meals with two screaming children 

Friday, October 21, 2016

What are we doing?

Some of you may be asking, what are you doing over there? Are you missionaries? Are you working? And why in Indonesia? We are not missionaries in the sense that it's usually understood--we are not with a missions agency, we didn't have to raise support, and Jeff does have a job at a University. We are here intentionally and with the hopes of living missionally, just as we would hopefully be living in the United States.  We have prayerfully and intentionally brought our family to live cross-culturally as we've followed God's leading to use our gifts in a part of the world that is close to our hearts.  We are living in a culture that is predominantly Muslim and where the gospel is desperately needed.  As I write this, I can hear the Imam's call to prayer through the loudspeakers that fill the city.  We have put ourselves (or rather, God has) in a new place and a season of change with all of the stresses that come along with it, and so we are getting the opportunity to lean in to Jesus as we feel our weakness more keenly. (This is something that can happen with any change in life, it doesn't necessarily take moving to another country.)  We are praying that God would show us how to serve and love him in this place, how do we do this as a family and in a season with young children.

We don't have answers for these questions, yet, but I do feel that God is showing a way that we can move forward in these areas.  And most of it isn't glamorous or even as frequent or "big" as I'd like. It looks like college student ministry.  It looks like baking cookies with students and having them over for dinner, teaching them good theology and teaching methodology, being faithful to meet with them when they have questions, learning Indonesian, plugging into a church, teaching our kids to pray, gradually stepping into the culture as we are able (which generally means leaving our town, which is why it only happens in bits and pieces).  Baking my first batch of cookies with my Indonesian tutors and having a group of students cook in our kitchen felt so familiar, it brought back memories of countless activities with college students when we taught EFL.

Ugandan and Filipino students.
A Cambodian student cooking one of her dishes. It was so yummy! My first time to eat Cambodian food.

It was great to have time to get to know them better.

Busy students cooking Cambodian, Filipino, and Chinese food.  They did a great job! We had a feast.

Lydia was the star of the show since Elias was sleeping.


So what ARE we doing here?  We came because Jeff was offered the unique opportunity to work with a group of international students at the ITC (International Teacher's College), a college that is accredited by a US institution and offers two different majors: Primary Education and Secondary Education with a concentration in English.  The vision of the school is to produce graduates who have a Biblical worldview and who can return to their countries as excellent teachers and shape the next generation.  This is a small school of around 100 students, and they will be graduating their first class of about 13 in the spring.  Along with teaching methodology classes and all of the usual gen eds, there are several required Bible classes.  Jeff was hired as a New Testament lecturer, but in reality his class load is diverse since the faculty is so small.  He teaches a class on "Acts and the Early Church," an Introduction to Education class, and Classroom Management.  Almost all of the College's 100 students are in one of his 3 classes, so he has the opportunity to get to know almost all of them, and the challenge of learning all of their names.
On the left, the second floor above the pool, is where the offices and classrooms for the ITC are located.

Jeff's walk to campus in the mornings.
All but 2 of the students are on full-ride scholarships made possible by a foundation called the Yayasan Pendidikan Pelita Harapan (briefly more on this below); otherwise they would not be able to attend. The students are particularly selected because of the need for Christian education in countries where this is not as developed. The freshman class has 9 countries represented in it: the Philippines, China, Myanmar, Cambodia, Thailand, Indonesia, Poland, Uganda, and Kenya.  All of these students hope to return to their own countries as teachers when they graduate.  Some of them are as young as 17, the oldest is 27 and several of them already have degrees and years of teaching experience under their belts already.  I've had the opportunity to get to know some of them through helping to lead a Conversation Circle of 9 students.  It is so encouraging to hear their stories about how God led them here, and I've been challenged by their faith in him as well as their desire to serve him through teaching.  Jeff says that the students are wonderful to work with--most of them want to be there, and they don't take the opportunity to study there for granted.  All of them had to have certain TOEFL scores (an English test) in order to enroll since all of the classes are taught in English.

Besides the students, there is a small team of about 7 faculty, and 4 staff that Jeff has really enjoyed getting to know.  They regularly share ideas as they build curriculum and best practices with such a new school.  Three of the other faculty live in our neighborhood, and Jeff often walks to school with the dean. The school has a family feel to it, and even though I don't teach there, every time I take the kids to the office to eat lunch with Jeff, I have felt welcomed and appreciated by his colleagues.

The ITC school is a smaller subset within a larger university called the Universitas Pelita Harapan (often referred to by its initials UPH and pronounced "oo-pay-hah"). In Indonesia, this school is often known as the school for rich Chinese kids, however, underneath the surface is a very interesting model for being solvent while also expanding the Kingdom of God. In essence, the school uses tuition rates from its prestigious schools in order to fund scholarships for students who can't afford schooling. The foundation that manages this is the Yayasan. Nearly 1,000 students from all over Indonesia are accepted to the university each year through these scholarships which provide room and board, tuition, uniforms, and the students' first job.  It is not a requirement for a student to be a Christian, so many of these students are also hearing the gospel for the first time.

The ITC is a part of this larger vision of offering education to those unable to afford it by extending these scholarships outside Indonesia to make an impact around the world for Christian education. The students at ITC are likewise fed, clothed, housed, educated, given their first job, and paid through the same unique program; however, the students must express a personal Christian faith in order to attend.

At the risk of losing you all with this long post, I'll leave it there, but will post more later on Yayasan foundation that makes it possible for the school to operate, and their larger vision for Indonesia and this part of the world.